lunes, 23 de febrero de 2015

Kill yourself

"If you want to kill yourself, kill what you don’t like. I had an old self that I killed. You can kill yourself too, but that doesn’t mean you got to stop living." —Archie’s Final Project ‪#‎LateNightThoughts‬


"My mother told me that when I wanted to forget something, I should go out and bathe in the rain.
That's what she did when she ran after my father when he left home when I was eight.
And on the nights after that where she would wait outside our house, eyes frantically searching for a pair of headlights, arms filling the warmth that once was provided by another pair of arms.
She let the rain soak her hair, her clothes, her skin. She let the chill take shelter in her hollow, beat-up bones.
After two weeks of the same regimen, she was okay.
She began to cook breakfast again, humming that familiar motown tune by the kitchen window.
She continued her usual morning runs.
She read the same self-help book for wives religiously and slept at exactly 11 in the evening, regardless of a good TV show or a friend of hers wanting to come over.
And it was as if nothing ever happened, and my father was still there.
So I shared the same belief.
I believed that the rain could dilute the pain, that the rain could cleanse the spots where his fingers once touched you, that it could wash away the sacred corners where his lips once hovered to plant the most illicit of kisses, that its melodic pitter-pat could make you forget the tone of his laughter or the sound of his voice.
So when we fought, and I decided that I was too tired of us, I stood under the rain, hoping it would cleanse me.
I let it soak my hair, my clothes, my skin. I let it in my dry, beat-up bones.
But instead of making me forget, the raindrops cleared my eyes to remember---remember that our love was born of storm clouds and lightning flashes.
That was when I knew my mother was wrong.
That was when I realized my mother’s eyes were swollen despite her going to bed early.
That was when I realized that she measured her worth by reading the same self-help book over and over again, memorizing it page by page, word per word.
That was when I realized that her morning runs were to stop her arms from sagging, to keep her stomach from reaching its rotund figure, to keep her legs conditioned so her strides could keep up with the twenty-something ladies my father probably has developed a liking for.
That was when I realized her cooking wasn’t perfect and that one side of the bacon would always be charred because she stared too long outside the kitchen window longingly, probably still wanting him to come back.
That was when I realized what a great liar my mother was.
In the end, my father left, and she was not okay, and nothing was ever the same.
In the end, pain numbs you like cold, pelting raindrops and transforms you into a devastated wreck after the storm has passed and you know, despite saying otherwise, that nothing is the same and nothing will ever be the same.
Contrary to what most people believe, pain doesn't leave.
It just stays there.
And like it or not, you just get used to living with it."
—submitted anonymously
“Beware of Destination Addiction—a preoccupation with the idea that happiness is in the next place, the next job, or with the next partner. Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.” —Lauren Britt 

martes, 17 de febrero de 2015

San Valentín

Efectivamente, no celebro San Valentín de la manera en que lo hacen los demás, eso sería vulgar. Además, no creo que sea divertido para la mayoría correr el riesgo de compartir esta fecha con un "Grinch". Pero es justo porque no formo parte de la mayoría que doy lo mejor de mí a quien ha decidido correr el riesgo y acompañarme en el camino. Sin alardes, tarjetitas ni exhibicionismos baratos, regalo a diario mi destino a quien ha tomado la opción de formar parte de él a pesar de mí y a pesar de todo. De mí,solo puede ocuparse un ángel. Porque ocuparse de mí, es navegar en el mar picado y mantener la calma. Es pensar las cosas en todos los idiomas para no dejar cabos sueltos al abrir la boca. Es despertar cada minuto justo antes de estrellarte contra el suelo y ver que era un sueño. Es acostumbrarse a vivir en la cuerda floja sin permiso de caerse. Es aceptar el vértigo que precede a la paz y ser feliz viajando del blanco al negro sin detenerse jamás en tonos medios. Es resignarte a mi ayer y a tu mañana…Tras de mí, solo puede haber un ángel. Feliz San Valentín.